Markson - Charisma
- Jackson: hey mark, yugyeom is asking if we wanna go to chuck e. cheese’s with him
- Mark: wtF no that’s way too wild for me
- Jackson: *sighs* mark…we need to talk
- Mark: about what
- Jackson: to tell the truth…you’re boring
- Mark: excuse me
- Jackson: we need to work on you. your image
- Mark: my image??? um someone already worked on my image, it was GOD cuz have you seen my face
- Jackson: yeah sure you’re beautiful but you need more…
- Mark: what is it, conditioner?
- Jackson: more…
- Mark: it’s face cream isnt it
- Jackson: …charisma
- Mark: umm ok but where do i buy that
- Jackson: listen mark, look at the rest of the members. Each of them steal the show, with their CHARISMA
- Mark: if you're suggesting I turn into them then sorry I refuse to act like a dumbass
- Jackson: ok. let’s try different images. let’s start with bad boy
- Mark: hell yeah i was made for this
- Jackson: ok GO
- Mark: yo whaddup jackson
- Jackson: hey mark w-
- Mark: shut the fuck up…what is this ugly piece of shit??
- Jackson: umm a hairbrush??
- Mark: *throws it across the room* disgusting
- Jackson: do you even know what a bad boy is
- Mark: do yOU??? ugh i cant even hang out with you, where’s your leather jacket ??
- Jackson: where’s yOURS
- Mark: um
- Jackson: ok we’re done with bad boy. hmm…maybe being FUNNY is your thing mark
- Mark: did you just discover that??? im hilarious
- Jackson: ok, let’s see if you can make wild and sexy jackson laugh
- Mark: ok so the other day in an interview, the guy asks, “who’s the face of the group?” and guess WHAT??? JB raises his hand ahahAHHAAH
- Jackson: how is that funny
- Mark: like he’s actually preTTIER than me omg i was DYING
- Jackson: so funny isnt your thing
- Mark: why cant you just accept me for who I am??
- Jackson: well-
- Mark: im just the cute, super hot and sweet natured guy ok
- Jackson: …you’re right. im sorry i tried to change you mark. i love you for who you are. even if you are uglier than me
- Mark: Jackson, I- wait what
- Jackson: you heard me
- Mark: that’s not funny jackson
- Jackson: it wasnt a joke. im the visual now.
- Mark: *passes out*
“There must be something strangely sacred in salt. It is in our tears and in the sea.” / Taken by riosage
“If you are lucky enough to find a weirdo never let them go”Matthew Gray Gubler (via deidreelliott)
when i make a joke to myself and no one’s around to hear it
“Don’t ever compliment me by insulting other women. That’s not a compliment, it’s a competition none of us agreed to.”"You’re not like other girls." Shut the fuck up. (via cutely-perverted)
A thought experiment: Imagine how people might react if Taylor Swift released an album made up entirely of songs about wishing she could get back together with one of her exes.
We’d hear things like: “She can’t let go. She’s clingy. She’s irrational. She’s crazy.” Men would have a field day comparing her to their own “crazy” exes.
Yet when Robin Thicke released “Paula” – a plea for reconciliation with his ex-wife Paula Patton disguised as an LP — he was called incoherent, obsessed, heartfelt and, in particular, creepy.
But you didn’t hear men calling him “crazy” — even though he used it as the title of one of tracks.
No, “crazy” is typically held in reserve for women’s behavior. Men might be obsessed, driven, confused or upset. But we don’t get called “crazy” — at least not the way men reflexively label women as such.
“Crazy” is one of the five deadly words guys use to shame women into compliance. The others: Fat. Ugly. Slutty. Bitchy. They sum up the supposedly worst things a woman can be.
WHAT WE REALLY MEAN BY “CRAZY” IS: “SHE WAS UPSET, AND I DIDN’T WANT HER TO BE.”
“Crazy” is such a convenient word for men, perpetuating our sense of superiority. Men are logical; women are emotional. Emotion is the antithesis of logic. When women are too emotional, we say they are being irrational. Crazy. Wrong.
Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel.
Small wonder that abusers love to use this c-word. It’s a way of delegitimizing a woman’s authority over her own life.
Most men (#notallmen, #irony) aren’t abusers, but far too many of us reflexively call women crazy without thinking about it. We talk about how “crazy girl sex” is the best sex while we also warn men “don’t stick it in the crazy.” How I Met Your Mother warned us to watch out for “the crazy eyes” and how to process women on the “Crazy/Hot” scale. When we talk about why we broke up with our exes, we say, “She got crazy,” and our guy friends nod sagely, as if that explains everything.
Except what we’re really saying is: “She was upset, and I didn’t want her to be.”
Many men are socialized to be disconnected from our emotions — the only manly feelings we’re supposed to show are stoic silence or anger. We’re taught that to be emotional is to be feminine. As a result, we barely have a handle on our own emotions — meaning that we’re especially ill-equipped at dealing with someone else’s.
That’s where “crazy” comes in. It’s the all-purpose argument ender. Your girlfriend is upset that you didn’t call when you were going to be late? She’s being irrational. She wants you to spend time with her instead of out with the guys again? She’s being clingy. Your wife doesn’t like the long hours you’re spending with your attractive co-worker? She’s being oversensitive.
As soon as the “crazy” card is in play, women are put on the defensive. It derails the discussion from what she’s saying to how she’s saying it. We insist that someone can’t be emotional and rational at the same time, so she has to prove that she’s not being irrational. Anything she says to the contrary can just be used as evidence against her.
More often than not, I suspect, most men don’t realize what we’re saying when we call a woman crazy. Not only does it stigmatize people who have legitimate mental health issues, but it tells women that they don’t understand their own emotions, that their very real concerns and issues are secondary to men’s comfort. And it absolves men from having to take responsibility for how we make others feel.
In the professional world, we’ve had debates over labels like “bossy” and “brusque,” so often used to describe women, not men. In our interpersonal relationships and conversations, “crazy” is the adjective that needs to go.” Men really need to stop calling women crazy - Harris O’Malley (via quentintortellini)
“And I am bored to death with it. Bored to death with this place, bored to death with my life, bored to death with myself.”Charles Dickens (via faithtrustandangeldust)
Finally, some good advice from Cosmo
even Nichkhun is so done
“Pray, forgive yourself, appreciate others, listen to your gut, do things you enjoy, & remind yourself that we are all loved & connected.”TheDailyPositive.com (via thedailypozitive)
I have two moods
One is highly sophisticated intellectual who goes into complex thoughts and is always moody and deep
the other is an immature 5 year old that doesn’t know how to control herself or her language or her actions
there is no inbetween